Compassion????

Why is it not all children/students aren't treated equally? I give my students every opportunity to complete work and to be successful. Why can't that same attention be given to my own children. Is it too much to ask to have assignments explained in writing? What 13 year old can remember all the details for a major project after 6 other class periods? Mine can't!!! He's then told he loses points because his mom is a teacher, and he should have done a better job. Is this teacher saying I should have done the assignment??? I am trying to teach my son to be responsible for himself, and he is continually being told "Your mom is a teacher so... you should do better, you should be better, etc." Just because he is the son of a teacher doesn't make him some type of "model" student and it shouldn't! I don't ask my students what their parents do and then expect them to perform to that job level in my classroom. And how do you stop this prejudice with out black balling your child with that teacher? I would love some suggetions!!!